do I have to be fierce, rough & harsh so others would respect me! is being kind and considerable means I'm naive.. is considering others' needs and dealing kindly means am habla.. do I have to raise my voice and scream so that everybody make sure that next time he would think million times before even bothering me.. is the way of being forgiving and easy going with others makes me weak!! do I have to kid others and make fun of them and mock at them to avoid bothering me!!
NO and Thousand NO.. I'll always be me.. That's me.. I won't change for sum.. Just sum of some ppl who don't understand how to deal with others.. but I'll find a way and KIND STIFF ;o) way to let them understand and to draw their attention that they HAVE to know their own borders themselves.. or.. they have to meet the OTHER ME.. ;o)
aho el nas di menhom keteer... accordingly , yea u have to be rude so that ppl will HAVE to respect u